Nel suo lavoro “Carattere ed erotismo anale” (1908) Sigmund Freud dice di descrivere delle “persone” che hanno particolari caratteristiche:
- ordinate = che comprende la nozione di pulizia corporale, di fidatezza, di coscienziosità nell’eseguire compiti e doveri;
- parsimoniose = che specchia di avarizia, ma comprende anche gli aspetti di oculatezza, autocontrollo, particolare coscienziosità nell’uso del denaro;
- ostinate = che porta a non cedere mai, ma anche un certo spirito vendicativo e ritorsivo.
Queste persone, dalla sua descrizione, hanno dimostrato, nella loro vita infantile, un lungo periodo di incontinentia alvi: riferita al trattenimento stool, the refusal to empty the bowel, stimulus leading to a subsidiary pleasure.
From this is referred to a "sexual constitution" in which the erogenicity is exceptionally strong. "
from these findings is the idea of \u200b\u200ban "anal character" and an "obsessive-compulsive personality," which, moving the desire in intimate withhold, not to give in, use these ways to "punish, punish the other which does not you want to give the best part of himself. "
These special features are not emphasized as related to deviations of sexual desire, then it is not an issue affiliated with homosexuality, but often raises this concern.
If this was the reading of Freud, the situation is quite different, however, that very often found in clinical practice.
paradigmatic way, we can bring some statements referring to anal masturbation, which are particularly interesting.
* ... I want to reveal my little secret staff and ask if there is any other person male or female as I like the anal masturbation. Let me explain. I state that although it is already married and have a regular sex life with my partner, very often like to masturbate and if I get the chance I love very much hear something from the dilated anus. Even very often, if I have some 'time, I try to expand it as I can, at the limit of pain and pleasure, to reach an orgasm really extraordinary.
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not an exceptional fact, many men I mentioned in an earlier reply have great sensitivity anal. Sometimes I have listened to that preference in adult male and regularly married at a young age had experienced homosexual experiences with peers. Often in relationships between couples erotic games are played with the partner's anal area. I would define a paranormality .... I would not go to dig deeper. However you are not alone.
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... pure io adoro masturbarmi analmente (sono una ragazza), con oggetti qualsiasi. Ma al momento di affrontare una penetrazione anale con il mio ragazzo mi blocco e non riesco proprio ad andare avanti, anche se usa solo un dito!! Non riesco a spiegarmi il perché dal momento che adoro farlo da sola e che mi fa provare delle sensazioni meravigliose.
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… salve, non siete soli! anche a me piace stimolarmi analmente. A farmi scoprire il piacere della masturbazione anale é stata mia moglie "Athea" e il tutto é iniziato dal fatto "se piace a tè perché non farlo anch'io?”
Siamo sposati da anni e quando stimolo la vagina con il dito mi piace inserire anche l'altro dito nell'ano; di conseguenza when she stimulates me, either by hand or oral sex, stimulates me with his finger (sometimes even two) the anus, and I must admit it feels great, although the first few times it gave me some trouble , the same one that tried her in the first anal sex. However I have never anally self-stimulatory, rather than me so excited and even reach orgasm when I'm away from you (for me and simply a goddess) and I see her photos and videos to your computer several e-mailed .-
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I suppose it is normal stress, every time, its NOT homosexuality, when dealing with certain topics ... and yet, it is now well established that stimulation of the anus male piacere.Inizialmente cause I felt great shame in addressing the issue with my ex-girlfriend but ... She proved to be more curious to me and everything went well and she was soon to take the initiative, which I liked even more! From single
which today happens to me very often to search for an orgasm through anal penetration. I hope the person will begin the next report will be as "open" in this sense ...
* I am a guy who really like women. I also like very anal masturbation. It 'a real buzz to try the delights of anal. And do not say every night, but when I close my room at night, I and I masturbate anus with a huge "suppostone" goood that makes me crazy. It is an indescribable pleasure, and to try to discover. Advice to men and women who feel inclined, to try. If you want we can exchange tips on how to masturbate techniques: objects and locations. The invitation is open to men and women. Greetings
* ... I think there should be asked questions about the ethics of anal masturbation, and especially do not understand why everyone has to start saying "I practice anal masturbation but definitely not a homosexual" ... because to do so must be gay??
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was born as a curiosity ... My wife is a regular anal penetration (credo che molto sia dovuto al grado di eccitazione). La domanda sorge poi spontanea "PERCHÉ IO NO?". Come molti di voi sicuramente sono cominciate le paranoie del tipo "e se sotto sotto sono omosessuale???" Naaaaaa pensarmi abbracciato ad un uomo ... BRRRRRRR.
Però la curiosità è rimasta ... ho provato ma quello che mi ha bloccato è stata quella sensazione di FASTIDIO iniziale ... "no no ... con me non funziona".
Eppure l'eccitazione che mi provoca solo l'idea di toccarmi dietro .... CONTINUA!
Mi devo rassegnare perché non fa per me o è solo questione di ... provare?
In queste dichiarazioni si evidenziano:
- il desiderio che sorge nel maschio sia durante la pratica onanistic that in the "erotic fantasies" that accompany sexual practice with the opposite sex;
- want to "anal", which are characterized by the pleasure of "... a sense of fullness rectal ampulla;
- an erotic excitement that leads to an orgasm which is reported to be particularly intense, mixed with "pain", but stronger than that caused by manipulation of the penis;
- an excitement that is present (request) by women in erotic practice and that does not mean forever "... the desire to be penetrated by their partners "if not to feel pleasure to recall something (fingers or objects) that give feelings of "fullness."
It also seems that this practice should humans disappear, in the sense that there is a certain amount of erotic life (early or late in adolescence and adulthood, perhaps especially, in old age when there is less potency).
anal eroticism is not just the one described by Freud and tied to feelings of fecal type, but a real desire to cause excitation (strong and powerful), and even orgasm by rubbing (dilation) of the anal sphincter el 'induction of rectal fullness of the vacuum. In most stories
clinical subjects (for mostly men) show a particular "pleasure" which is perceived a strong sense of "orgasmic contraction of the anal area, very different from that perceived at the root of the penis at the time of orgasm, they were two completely different mechanisms are often reported as "overlapping" and concomitant, hence the particular sense of pleasure felt in the "orgasm anal
This seems so obvious characteristic of man and the woman (who does not sign).
decided otherwise and the "sense of fullness in the anal" described as overwhelming feeling of hearing something that penetrates, but it fills, come se venisse percepito un senso di vuoto ed un desiderio di sentirlo colmare.Queste sensazioni riportate dai maschi, farebbero pensare ad un “desiderio omosessuale”, ma non può essere pensato in questo senso, proprio perché queste persone non raccontano mai esperienze simili, né anteriori, né posteriori ad periodo nel quale questa attività è stata presente.
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